HOW CAN I BE MYSELF IN FRONT OF THE CAMERA?
I get this question a lot from my clients—and I have good news:
You don’t need to know what to do in front of the camera.
That’s *my* job.
It’s Not About Posing Perfectly
It’s the photographer’s job to guide you, show you how to hold your body, and help you feel calm, relaxed, and confident.
Still, most of us carry what I call Camera Trauma—a belief that we’re not photogenic or that we look awkward in photos. Maybe someone said those things to you once, and they stuck.
But it’s not your fault—and it’s not your responsibility.
Creating a Safe Space
Having your portrait taken can be deeply vulnerable. I believe that it's the photographer’s role to create a space where you feel comfortable enough to be yourself.
Someone can be technically amazing at photography, but if they don’t have the emotional presence to help you feel safe, the experience—and the photos—will reflect that.
A Portrait Session that Feels Like Therapy
Many people have told me that my portrait sessions feel more like therapy.
A few years ago, I was photographing a therapist, and partway through the session, she stopped and said:
“I see what you’ve done here.”
She explained:
“You set the mood, you told me what to expect, you made sure I was comfortable. You mirrored me, validated my fears, and let me know you’d be looking out for me. That allowed me to be vulnerable—to be myself.”
Until that moment, I hadn’t even realized how intentional my process was. I was simply doing what I always do—treating people with care, curiosity, and attention.
What I Do to Support You
Before every session, I take time to welcome you in. I help you bring in your clothes and belongings. I offer water, tea, or snacks. I make sure you’ve had a chance to breathe and settle.
We talk about the intention for your portraits. We look through your clothing and discuss how you want people to feel when they see your images.
Then, I walk you through simple poses—using my yoga background to explain how to hold your body so it looks strong, natural, and yours. I talk about where people commonly hold tension and gently guide you into relaxing, step by step.
And throughout the session, we talk. About your work, your passions, your pets, your travels—whatever helps you feel grounded and seen.
You Get to Just Be You
All of this is to say—it’s totally normal to feel unsure or awkward in front of the camera. You’re not alone.
And also? It’s not your job to fix that.
Let me do what I do best.
You just get to laugh, relax, and enjoy yourself.
It shouldn’t feel like work or stress—it should feel like you.